Speaking personally, when I could feed myself I used a spoon and fork that had much much thicker handles. I needed thicker handles because I would struggle to hold a fork or knife in my hand because I couldn’t grip, and a thicker handle meant I could hold it more confidently. I tried cutlery that had a weird twist in the neck that meant the bowl or tines were slightly angled which apparently made it easier, but I really didn’t get on with them.
I didn’t really care about the aesthetics. The important thing was being able to eat.
Now that I have carers or friends feeding me I don’t really have any need for different cutlery to normal ones.
I do slightly object to you coming into a forum that has been designed to be used by people who are affected by MS in order to do market research. It’s not appropriate.