Ha ha! Carole - aka Stan’s auntie. Stan is my dog as I don’t think my sons would like to be part of my user name! Poor old dog doesn’t get a say though!
You must have set off by now, I expect, but hope it’s gone really well, by the time you see this.
I was never christened/confirmed as a child, as my parents (reasonably, in my opinion) believed it was an adult decision you cannot make for someone else.
But I’ve often had a notion I ought to do something about it. Not found a church locally I really feel at home enough to start off on the path, though.
Well done Carole. I went to a church of england school, but to be honest can’t remeber learning much. I go to a Methodist church now, and the people are very nice. I am learning at my own pace from a book of bible stories as I find the Bible hard going. I have formed the opinion I need God rather more than he needs me!.
I agree it’s hugely comforting if someone we lose had strong faith, even if we’re uncertain ourselves.
My dad used to be quite religious as a young man, but sadly, we never discussed it when he knew he was dying, so I wasn’t sure what he believed at the end, nor how to reflect it at the service.
We held a traditional C of E service for him, because he was confirmed and entitled, but I was never sure if it was what he would have wanted, or a bit of a travesty.
Sorry - bit of a maudlin thought, on your special day.
But it would help if people would say what they wanted, then relatives wouldn’t be left worrying whether it’s OK or not.