I have been dating this lovely lady (45) since early July this year. We have written messages to each other several times a day, and I have slept over at hers 4 times the last month. I have felt we have extremely good connection and everything looked like we could become a couple.
However, 2 weeks ago, it became almost silent, and I didn´t receive any messages. Then one day, I received a mail where she stated that she really enjoyed my company, and wanted to be friend with me. Bit she didn´t have any romantic feelings for me.
Before this happened, I had an experience that have made me think a lot. During one of my stay-overs at hers, we went to the kitchen for some food. When I opened the fridge, I saw this box of medicines - Copaxone. I asked what it was, and she just said it was some medicines. I didn´t want to ask her more about this, because her medicines is not my business. However, when it all became silent, I started google this medicine, and the only indication I have seen for this product is MS. This lady have never told me that she has MS, but recently I received another mail from her where she said that she liked me a lot, wanted to be my good friend, and in addition wanted to meet me soon, because there was something she wanted to speak to me about.
I told her that we of course should meet and speak about “whatever”. My feeling is that she might tell me about having MS. But I could of course be wrong.
I have been reading a lot about MS the last few weeks, and know that its a very unpredictable disease that affects people very differently.
I cant stop thinking of this lady, but I don´t dare taking contact an reveal that I know what Copaxone is used for. That must be her choice if she wants to tell me.
I guess my question here really is: Could it be that she dumped me to protect me from her MS, or to protect her from the dissapointment that I would reject her? Is that common?
And by the way; If she actually have MS, that wouldn´t change any of my feelings towards her.
MS or no MS; she is still my dreamgirl!
And do you have any suggestions on how I should act? Of course there is a good chance that she just isn´t that into me. That I can accept, but I want her to know that if she has MS, I would still be there for her.
Could Copaxone be used for other diseases?
Thanks a lot for reading through this!